Wednesday, 22 June 2011

Edited Version of : Expensive Dowry

Date of meeting:        21/06/2011
Time of Meeting:       14:55
Venue:                        W104
Group members:
Chairman:           Saeed Al Qubaisi
Minutes taker: Mohammed Al Harbi
Participant:       Hadif Al Menhali

Agenda:
1.     Marriage as social union.
2.    Traditions of marriage in the U.A.E.
3.    Problems of Emirati men (who have the desire to get married).
4.    Expensive dowry.
5.    Consequences of expensive dowry.
6.    Solutions.

Chairman Saeed called the meeting to commence at 14:55. The main problem that was discussed in the meeting is the expensive dowry in the U.A.E, but it started with Saeed talking about marriage generally as a social union. Then Mohammed pointed out the specific rules which govern marriage in the U.A.E. Hadif commented on the institution of marriage which includes intimate interaction between partners.

To control the topic of the meeting, Saeed pointed out the major problems facing Emirati men who have the desire to get married which is the expensive dowry. The consequences of this problem are significant. Mohammed raised the issue of debt and loans related to banks. Hadif emphasized the social problems which include living in a low conditions and below expectations, misunderstanding and continuous arguments between partners which could lead to divorce. Saeed notes that as a result of these problems, Emirati men tend to choose foreign girls who do not ask for such high standards. The result of this however is that Emirati girls stay maiden with no husband for years and maybe never get married.

To find a solution for this issue, Mohammed mentioned the Marriage Fund which is supported and funded by the government of the U.A.E. in an attempt to lower the dowry. Awareness through media is an important method to influence families and the general public. For example, movies, talk shows, and advertisements are practical means to change the concept of marriage and its costs.
So, the chairman called the meeting to adjourn at 15:25

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